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We're White Guys... And We Take No Crap... |
| Posted by: tony on 04/27/2008 05:37 PM (Read: ) |
There is nothing that will make me smile faster than the screechy ranting of an angry feminist (is there any other kind?).
But now there are two and we're facing Pennsylvania and whom are we kidding? This is an election about whether the people of Pennsylvania hate blacks more than they hate women. And when I say people, I don't mean people, I mean white men. How ironic is this? After all this time, after all these stupid articles about how powerless white men are and how they can't even get into college because of overachieving women and affirmative action and mean lady teachers who expected them to sit still in the third grade even though they were all suffering from terminal attention deficit disorder -- after all this, they turn out (surprise!) to have all the power. (As they always did, by the way; I hope you didn't believe any of those articles.)
To put it bluntly, the next president will be elected by them: the outcome of Tuesday's primary will depend on whether they go for Hillary or Obama, and the outcome of the general election will depend on whether enough of them vote for McCain. A lot of them will: white men cannot be relied on, as all of us know who have spent a lifetime dating them. And McCain is a compelling candidate, particularly because of the Torture Thing. As for the Democratic hope that McCain's temper will be a problem, don't bet on it. A lot of white men have terrible tempers, and what's more, they think it's normal.
White men. Pasty, uni-cultural, testosterone-soaked louts. We are going to elect the next President, and it forces an uncontrollable big-ol SEG on my face.
When I heard the term "white men", all I could think of was the old Saturday Night Live skit with I believe it was Dan Aykroyd and Steve Martin (the whitest white guy I can imagine) rapping:
We're white guys
and we take no crap
when we deliver our
white rap!
McCain appeals to men. Well, more than the man-wannabe, Hillary Clinton or the metrosexual Barack Obama. He's been in the military. He shoots guns. He was shot down, captured and tortured. All of his bones were broken and he still told his captors that he wanted to be the last to leave.
No privileged sissy-boy, he.
He suffered for our freedom, and he believes we ought to exercise it by taking responsibility for our own destinies and reaping the rewards or penalties of our actions. He believes we ought to buy our own damn health insurance instead of the wide-screen HDTV, and if we make a bad deal on a house, we might just lose it.
There are some issues about John McCain that I disagree with, but on average, he's a satisfactory candidate for me (and is positively extraordinary when compared with the hash that the Democrats are slinging).
So I think I'm going to be going into the voting booth this November and as I pull the lever for McCain with my strong left hand, I'm going to be extending a stiff middle finger on my right toward the Huffington Compost and their whiny, nasty gaggle of liberal crybabies.
(H/T to Rachel)
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When A Lady Asks Nicely... |
| Posted by: tony on 11/09/2007 04:18 AM (Read: ) |

...A man will usually happily comply.
Sister Toldjah requested an anti-Hillary bumper sticker around the "damsel in distress" theme.
I took my shot at it.
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Wouldn't It Be Loverly |
| Posted by: tony on 11/04/2007 02:11 PM (Read: ) |
If during presidential debates, we could have voting panels like in Congress, and you could ask a presidential candidate a question like "Senator Clinton, do you support the Governor of New York's plan to issue driver's licenses to illegal aliens?".
[ ] Yes
[ ] No
Then they make the yes / no vote on the issue. Otherwise we get an exchange like this (transcript and video).
Tim Russert:] Senator Clinton, Governor of New York Eliot Spitzer has proposed giving driver's licenses to illegal immigrants. [You] told the Nashua, New Hampshire, Editorial Board it makes a lot of sense.
Why does it make a lot of sense to give an illegal immigrant a driver's license?
Clinton: Well, what Governor Spitzer is trying to do is fill the vacuum left by the failure of this administration to bring about comprehensive immigration reform. We know in New York we have several million at any one time who are in New York illegally. They are undocumented workers. They are driving on our roads. The possibility of them having an accident that harms themselves or others is just a matter of the odds. It's probability.
So what Governor Spitzer is trying to do is to fill the vacuum. I believe we need to get back to comprehensive immigration reform because no state, no matter how well intentioned, can fill this gap. There needs to be federal action on immigration reform.
Russert: Does anyone here believe an illegal immigrant should not have a driver's license?
(Unknown): Believe what?
Russert: An illegal immigrant should not have a driver's license.
Dodd: This is a privilege. And, look, I'm as forthright and progressive on immigration policy as anyone here. But we're dealing with a serious problem here, we need to have people come forward. The idea that we're going to extend this privilege here of a driver's license I think is troublesome, and I think the American people are reacting to it. We need to deal with security on our borders. We need to deal with the attraction that draws people here. We need to deal fairly with those who are here.
But this is a privilege. Talk about health care, I have a different opinion. That affects the public health of all of us.
But a license is a privilege, and that ought not to be extended, in my view.
Clinton: Well, I just want to add, I did not say that it should be done, but I certainly recognize why Governor Spitzer is trying to do...
(Unknown): Wait a minute...
Clinton: And we have failed. We have failed.
Dodd: No, no, no. You said -- you said yes...
Clinton: No.
Dodd: ... you thought it made sense to do it.
Clinton: No, I didn't, Chris. But the point is, what are we going to do with all these illegal immigrants who are driving...
Dodd: That's a legitimate issue. But driver's license goes too far, in my view.
Clinton: Well, you may say that, but what is the identification?
If somebody runs into you today who is an undocumented worker...
Dodd: There's ways of dealing with that.
Clinton: Well...
Dodd: This is a privilege, not a right.
Clinton: Well, what Governor Spitzer has agreed to do is to have three different licenses, one that provides identification for actually going onto airplanes and other kinds of security issues, another which is another ordinary driver's license, and then a special card that identifies the people who would be on the road, so...
Dodd: That's a bureaucratic nightmare.
Clinton: ... it's not the full privilege.
Russert: Senator Clinton, I just want to make sure of what I heard. Do you, the New York senator, Hillary Clinton, support the New York governor's plan to give illegal immigrants a driver's license?
You told the New Hampshire paper that it made a lot of sense. Do you support his plan?
Clinton: You know, Tim, this is where everybody plays "gotcha." It makes a lot of sense. What is the governor supposed to do? He is dealing with a serious problems. We have failed. And George Bush has failed. Do I think this is the best thing for any governor to do? No. But do I understand the sense of real desperation, trying to get a handle on this? Remember, in New York, we want to know who's in New York. We want people to come out of the shadows.
He's making an honest effort to do it. We should have passed immigration reform.
Senator, we don't need you commenting on what the prior administration did or didn't do. You are not running against George W. Bush, though you seem to think you are. Now how about it. Yes, or no. Do you support giving illegal aliens driver's licenses? C'mon, you can do it. If you support New York's Governor, proclaim it loudly. If you don't, just push him under the bus and be done with it. He deserves it for doing such a stupid thing, in the city where the World Trade Center towers came down, and which 70% of New Yorkers oppose.
Wouldn't it be great if politicians just said what they believe; boldly, clearly and most of all consistently. Senator Clinton is finding out that in the age of global communications every inconsistent word is spread about the planet at light speed, especially when it's pushed along by the legions of people who don't like her.
Better yet, Senator. Keep doing what you're doing. Republican candidates, listen up...
Fred spoke to reporters in San Jose today:
As far as I’m concerned, I think giving drivers licenses to illegals is a bad idea for a lot of reasons. I think we have to quit inducing people to come and stay if they’re illegal. I think it’s a disservice to the millions of people who stood in long lines around the world at American embassies to come here and play by the rules and become American citizens and become productive and great parts of our society. But when you’re making it easier, when you’re providing sanctuary cities and telling your local officials that they can’t even cooperate with federal authorities, and then saying its a federal responsibility, I think that’s an irresponsible way to go,
Drivers licenses are the nearest thing to an ID card that we’ve got in this country. Your need your drivers license for everything. Why aren’t they being apprehended and sent home if they come in and announce that they’re illegal? We’ve either got to be serious enforcing our laws or not. I don’t think we can afford to be selective in that regard.
(Hat tip to RedState)
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Caption Contest |
| Posted by: tony on 04/04/2007 11:44 PM (Read: ) |
Here's my entry:
"If I were a bitch, man... yabba di-a-di-a-di-a-di-a-doo..." |
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A Look Inside Pandagon |
| Posted by: tony on 02/15/2007 10:48 PM (Read: 1172) |
It seems that since the Edwards debacle, Chris Clarke of Pandagon has noticed a decided influx of folks to their weblog who are not as sympathetic to the feminist, sexuality inclusive, pro-choice viepoint of the regulars in the comment boxes. As a matter of fact, many of them are patriarchial, misogynistic, hetero-normative trolls.
Chris has taken the opportunity to show us what the recent influx of commenters looks like. Pretty scary!
Well, I have been one of those recent commenters, and armed with my trusty vid-cellphone, I'm giving you an opportunity to see what life is like inside Pandagon. Go beneath the fold, if you dare!
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Bill Donahue is HISTORY! |
| Posted by: tony on 02/09/2007 10:22 PM (Read: ) |
Or so says Auguste from Pandagon.
I have been an occasional troll1 at Pandagon for quite some time, and I have been watching the Edwards / Marcotte / Donahue sideshow with a certain degree of interest. It seems that Amanda has finally resigned. I was kind of bummed, because that probably means that the sideshow is over. I have never had dealings with Meslissa McEwan, so the ongoing saga is not quite so interesting to me.
When I got thinking about the Marcotte hiring, something that came to mind was a book by Stephen King called "The Dead Zone". In it there is a politician named Greg Stillson who is a closet fascist who has aspirations toward the White House. He goes easy on the leader of a particularly nasty biker gang named Sonny Ellison when he is mayor of the town where Sonny is busted for drugs, if Sonny will use his violent bikers to help his campaign. So the bikers appear at the campaign rallies as "security". They carry sawed off broom handles, and have new haircuts, fresh new clean shaven faces, and suits. When someone heckles Stillson at a rally, one of the bikers step in to "encourage them to leave". If they don't leave, they get hurt. Stillson gets points for "reforming" these criminals while using them to assault Stillsons detractors.
That was how the use of Amanda Marcotte and Melissa McEwan appeared to me. A nasty, unruly "biker gang" of bloggers that Edwards appeared to try and "clean up" and make useful. That lasted about... well... two days. Now Amanda is back in her studded leathers, popping caps and swinging chains at Catholics and other Christians everywhere.
Now Auguste wants to turn Bill Donahue into the IRS for violation of his tax-exempt status.
That's cool. If Bill Donahue has violated federal regulations, he should be punished in the manner prescribed by law. And if this means removing the tax-exempt of the Catholic League, so be it. The people on Pandagon seem to think that this will shut Donahue up or get him fired. What losing his tax exempt status will do is remove the restrictions on his speech and allow him to directly go after candidates. I, for one, would like to know what the Catholic League's tax burden might be so I can pledge a portion of it every year, and I'm sure there are other Catholics who will do the same.
The tone on Pandagon is the same as always. Poor me. I'm a victim. All the patriarchal misogynists are out to get me. Amanda writes:
Chrisitians are people who are supposed to follow the behavior and teachings of Jesus Christ. I mention this, because it seems to me that therefore, when Christians are contemplating an action that is morally questionable, it appears they should consult the Bible before acting.
Luckily, I happen to have a Bible laying around this house, because even though I'm not a Christian, I was an English major, and it is important to Know Your Ancient Mythologies if you are reading poetry. And I flipped to this passage that seems to have solid advice on what to do if you've got some *bleep* dragging a woman in front of an angry crowd and yelling, "SINNER!":
The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing her in the midst 4 they said to him, "Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery. Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?" This they said to test him, that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, "Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her." And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground. But when they heard it, they went away one by one, beginning with the older ones, and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. Jesus stood up and said to her, "Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?" She said, "No one, Lord." And Jesus said, "Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.”
I'm wondering why Amanda is quoting out of a book of what she considers "fiction" to measure other people's behavior.
The part Amanda missed was the "sin no more" statement. If Amanda is willing to renounce her sinful ways and repent, I'm more than happy to forgive her. And I don't mean like her fake apology that she's already disavowed.
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News Flash! Women Have Breasts! |
| Posted by: tony on 09/20/2006 10:51 AM (Read: ) |
Ann Althouse reports that a number of bloggers had lunch with Bill Clinton. That in itself is not a crime. To many in liberal circles, Bill has rock star quality, and everyone knows most rock stars have their grouples.
Ann takes a different tack with this and decides to take a pot shot at how a particular blogger was dressed.
The first commenter, Goesh, picks up on my prompt -- "Let's just array these bloggers... randomly" -- and wisecracks: "Who is the Intern directly in front of him with the black hair?
The "intern" (guffaw, guffaw) turned out to be Jessica Valenti from Feministing. I have visited there before, and most of what I read there is neo-feminist claptrap, but this sort of attack on Jessica's looks is just well... so 5th grade.
The divine Ms. Althouse writes:
Eventually, Jessica from a blog called Feministing, shows up and says: "The, um, 'intern' is me. It's so nice to see women being judged by more than their looks. Oh, wait..."
Snarky but somewhat conciliatory, I say: "Well, Jessica, you do appear to be 'posing.' Maybe it's just an accident."
Jessica Feministing returns and says:
It's a picture; people pose. And I'm not sure I understand your logic anyway. If I "pose" for a picture (as opposed to sulking and hunching over?) then I deserve to be judged for my looks? I don't see anyone talking *bleep* about the other bloggers smiling pretty for the camera.
Provoked, I decide to actually give her a small dose of the kind of judgment for brains she seems to demanding:
Jessica: I'm not judging you by your looks. (Don't flatter yourself.) I'm judging you by your apparent behavior. It's not about the smiling, but the three-quarter pose and related posturing, the sort of thing people razz Katherine Harris about. I really don't know why people who care about feminism don't have any edge against Clinton for the harm he did to the cause of taking sexual harrassment seriously, and posing in front of him like that irks me, as a feminist. So don't assume you're the one representing feminist values here. Whatever you call your blog....
Well, news flash! Jessica is a woman, and a somewhat attractive woman. By today's standards, she's dressed like a nun, and *GASP* she has breasts!
I can appreciate the female form, and there's nothing wrong with an intelligent woman also being pretty. That picture does not look sexually suggestive to me (though I'd worry, where she was standing, about the President grabbing her ass :)).
From some of the dicussions following this on Feministing, I have come to the impression that the prevailing attitude is that women can dress like streetwalkers, and if they are "objectivized", it's the man's problem.
Well, there is a difference between "objectivization" and a healthy appreciation for the beauty of the female face and form. Men are visual. Most red-blooded, heterosexual men who are warmer than room temperature enjoy looking at beautiful women.
Objectivization can only happen when a woman allows herself to be objectivized.
So Jessica, stand proud. You're a good looking woman. Enjoy the appreciative looks the men give you (ogling is a no-no, though). Oh, and Ms. Althouse... Grow up.
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A Modern Woman |
| Posted by: tony on 08/23/2006 10:57 AM (Read: ) |
Is epitomized by Jacueline Mackie Paisley Passey. She seems to have it all. She's passably cute, smart, successful.
She's also self absorbed and arrogant beyond belief, and furthermore, she's available.
In a blog post entitled Dating Tip: Quality Dates Quality she states:
Over the past month (since I left Terrence) I’ve received several offers of dates and relationships from various men who read this blog. I’m not looking for a new boyfriend right now but it seems I should clarify what it is I look for in a man when I am, which will hopefully stem the flow of offers from guys who really don’t have it.
The eternal optimist in all of us. Hoping upon hope that we could someday date a girl of the calibre of Ms. Passey. Here are her stats, boys... try not to drool too obviously.
I am a very high-quality woman. I know that sounds arrogant, but let’s consider the facts:
- I'm slim (whereas 62% of American women age 20 to 74 are overweight)
- I'm attractive (my new picture has been rated more attractive than 86% of the women on Hot or Not -- and the women who upload their pictures are a self-selected sample that is probably already biased towards being more attractive than the general female population)
- I'm relatively young (whereas 82% of American adult women are over 30 years old)
- I'm intelligent (IQ tested at 145 when I was a child, which is 3 standard deviations above the mean -- higher than 99.85% of the population. Even if I've gotten dumber as I’ve aged I'm probably still at least a 130, which is higher than 97.5% of the population.)
- I’m educated (whereas 77% of American women do not have bachelor's degrees)
- I have my financial *bleep* together (no debt, perfect credit history, 6+ months living expenses saved, adequate insurance, self employed)
- I have a strong libido and love having sex (my lover *never* has to beg, unless it's for me to let him get some sleep!)
- Most of my interests tend to be more popular with men than women: science fiction, libertarianism, blogging, politics, economics, guns, gambling, etc.
She sounds like quite a catch, doesn't she. She's like the girl who dresses provocatively who is saying to all the world "look at my body, it's my best attribute". She is saying: "The above list are what I consider my best attributes".
Given that self-improvement is an ongoing project of mine this list will continue to grow (I'm currently working on adding bilingual, very physically fit, well-traveled, higher income, and fantastic cook to the list). So even when "relatively young" (an important criteria for most men) drops off that list, I should have added enough other things that my overall dating market value should remain the same or even improve.
Well Jacqui (can I call you Jacqui?), let me make a suggestion to you. If you attract a man for whom "relatively young" is an important criteria, you will have gotten exactly the man you deserve. If you'll allow me to speak to you as a "Dutch uncle", I'd suggest that in your self improvement quest, you try and improve on humility, kindness, spirituality, selflessness and service. I have to say that yes, you are fairly cute (if that is indeed your picture) and you have a number of good qualities (if you are telling the truth), but I have to tell you that I don't find your overall attitude attractive at all. When I was younger, before I got married, I would have probably asked you out on a date, and God would have smiled on me when you refused because I wasn't up to snuff.
I realize that some of you will find this post depressing because you'll realize that you don’t qualify as a high quality man and thus won't be able to get a high quality woman. You have a few options:
1. Lower your standards and stop pursuing women who are out of your league. There are lots of fat single mothers out there who can't find dates either.
2. Look in the developing world. If you're literate with a home computer and an internet connection you are very wealthy compared to the rest of the world. Citizenship or legal permanent residency in a rich country makes you more attractive to women in poorer countries. Your value on the dating market is thus much higher there.
3. Self-improvement! I used to be a fat unattractive college dropout who couldn't get her life together. Now I'm thin, attractive, and successfully self-employed after graduating. You can make yourself over into a higher-quality man capable of winning a higher-quality woman too.
Thanks to everyone who e-mailed or commented their offers, it's nice to feel wanted. Although I'm not looking for a new relationship right now (don't worry, I'll blog about it when I am), hopefully this post gave those of you who are interested a better idea of your chances in the future.
So all you men who miss one or more of Jaqui's required attributes can simply forget it. But that's ok, it'll be her loss.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and play "Madame Cleo" and make a prophecy.
Jacqui will dip her toe into the dating pool, and she'll find a guy that she is interested in. He'll be slim, athletic, smart, atheist, he'll dislike kids just as much as Jacqui, and in addition, he'll be tickled as to what a high quality girl he was able to snag. Of course, he'll be just as arrogant and self absorbed as she. They'll bump bellies for a few year (as she gets a few years older, spending all of that "youth capital") and he'll find someone else just as smart, just as educated, just as financially secure (or better) than Jacqui and off he'll go.
Jacqui will be a few years older, with a few more wrinkles, when she dips her toe in the dating pool again. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Good luck, Jacqui, you're going to need it.
(Hat tip to the Man with the Black Hat)
Update: Do you hear that angry buzzing sound? You do? Well, it's a blogswarm! |
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My Name Is Tony, And I'm An Anti-Neo-Feminist |
| Posted by: tony on 08/07/2006 10:03 PM (Read: ) |
Every so often Dawn Eden brings to the fore something particularly wrong headed that Amanda Marcotte from Pandagon has written. Most of the time I can leave them alone, but every so often, one of them begs a response. This is one of them.
Feminist-minded people who won't use the label "feminist" have nothing on the sexist folks out there who run like the wind from the word "anti-feminist". I don't blame them. The word "anti-feminist" sounds ugly, like the person wearing the labeled is opposed to women. Unfortunately for them, what it sounds like is what it is.
This only makes sense if "woman" equals "feminist". It does not.
Words mean things. Take the word "feminist", for instance. Back in the days of the authentic feminism, feminists and other like minded people were fighting for the right of women to vote, to be paid equally for equal work, and to be in charge of their own destiny. Admirable goals, and as a "manly man" I would completely support them in that effort.
Today, feminists have morphed into mother-hating, men-hating, baby-hating, screeching harpies. Sitting on the shoulders of giants like Susan B. Anthony, they are content, like pigeons, to sit there squawking and crapping on those brave women who got them where they are today. Their focus has gone from equal opportunity in the workplace to equal outcome. The original feminists were about allowing a woman to find her own destiny. The "new" feminism is about finding your own destiny, well... unless your chosen destiny is to take care of your household and bear and raise your own children.
If this is the face of feminism, then I will proudly wear the label anti-feminist. For the rest of the piece I'll be referring to this new kind of feminist as a "neo-feminist".
The desperation to avoid the label "anti-feminist" reaches pretty silly levels, as this post at IWF demonstrates today. (Hat tip, PA.) The story is about a group of Notre Dame anti-feminists who claim that they are "reclaiming" the label "feminist" according to Pope John Paul II's instructions. Because nothing says "feminist" like the head of a group that petulantly refuses to accept female membership, due to the cooties factor.
Gotta take a potshot at Catholicism. 'Cause nothing says "floor pounding temper tantrum", like telling a neo-feminist that there is going to be something a woman will never do. They can carp, and cry and even take a boat ride, put on red panchos, serve bread and wine, and call themselves priests, but they will never, ever, become Catholic priests.
The group calls themselves the Edith Stein Project, and naturally the flashpoint for the organizing is to oppose the showing of "The Vagina Monologues" on campus. IWF may not have any obsessions bigger than hating this play, which says to me that they view making women feel shame about our bodies as the linchpin in their anti-feminist worldview.
Used to be that feminists were against the objectification of women. They wanted to be respected for who they were, not their body parts, so to battle objectification of women, the neo-feminists pretend to be a big vagina! I guess to the neo-feminists, objectification is fine and dandy if you are doing it to yourself. I don't think you could objectivize yourself any worse if you wore this.
This Edith Stein Project is one of the more common flavors of anti-feminists pretending to be feminist by co-opting the language but not understanding the concepts. This effort to "reclaim" feminism is the same one as Feminists for Life, they happened upon the term "sex object" and assumed, wrongly, that the problem with being a sex object is the sex part, not the object part. Contraceptive use and abortion are offered up assaults on women's dignity.
Well, let's see... Contraception allowed sex without children. It allowed men to use women for their sexual pleasure without any risk of fathering a child for which they would be responsible for the rest of their lives. Abortion has allowed men to abuse girls as young as 13, and cover up their crime by bringing them into Planned Parenthood for a no-questions-asked abortion. Hmmm... Yup, taking a pill that renders you barren so a man can "safely" use you as a living breathing sex toy is not an assault on your dignity. I guess you really don't have much dignity left to be assaulted if you think like that.
The purpose of the conference is two-fold. The conference will begin by discussing ways in which our dignity as women is under attack in our culture, featuring presentations on eating disorders, violence against women, contraception, abortion, and other issues.
Sounds like feminist issues to me.
Interestingly, one of the common complaints on IWF is that "The Vagina Monologues" reduces women to our vaginas, which means that merely admitting you have one in public somehow erases the rest of your being. Clearly, they're trying to confuse people on what the feminist concept of objectification is. Objectification is reducing someone to an object, end of story. Allowing that women are full human beings with desires and bodily functions that they have the agency to control, which is what reproductive rights advocates do, is not objectification.
LOL!!! Winston Smith would be proud. Black is white, good is bad, war is peace. I don't know what the color of the sky is on your home planet, Amanda, but here on planet earth, pretending to be a big vagina is objectification. Here is another clue for you. The work you neo-feminists have done with regards to contraception and abortion has already "vagina monologued" women in the eyes of many males. They already see you as only vaginas, before Eve ever put pen to paper.
However, slapping a purity ring on a girl's finger and telling her that she should only "give herself" to her husband is in fact sexual objectification. Having sex with someone is not the same as "giving yourself". The concept of giving is that one person transfers ownership of their property to someone else, who is free to do with it as they see fit. So the phrasing then means that the woman who gives herself is transferring ownership of her entire being over to her husband's use as if she were nothing but an object, and the sexual contact is just the ceremony of his taking use and enjoying his brand new warm sex toy/breeding machine.
No, Amanda. Having sex is not the same as "giving yourself". I hear all the time about a "woman's right to do with her body as she likes". This, however, doesn't seem to apply to girls who respect themselves and wish to give the gift of their sexuality and fertility freely to their husband.
When you are not "giving yourself", you are "taking".
Having sex with someone and being able to do so without him gaining control over you as if you were a piece of property is anti-objectification. Having the government, your husband, or some mysterious god lay claim to your uterus and tell you that it will be used as he sees fit instead of how you see fit is objectification. Having sex with 100 men because you want to is anti-objectification. Hanging onto your virginity because you know your entire worth to your future husband is based only on the nature of your hymen instead of the content of your character is objectification. Any use of the term "sex object" that implies that the way out of being a sex object is to relinquish power or control over your life and become a breeding machine is misdirection. Being told to give up control over yourself for the use of someone else is being objectified.
How incredibly sad.
It's interesting. Girls who remain pure before marriage attract a different kind of boy. It is the kind of boy who doesn't see her worth as a path to his own sexual gratification. He has the time to get to know her, deeply and intimately as a person, before he binds himself to her, promising love and fidelity and undying loyalty until one of them dies. Then, and only then, does he join with her lovingly, passionately and even sacramentally in a love so great, in nine months you may even have to give it a name. she attracts the kind of boy who grows into a manly man.
The girl who "puts out" attracts the kind of boy who's looking for a plaything. The girl who dresses like a streetwalker is saying to a boy "look at my body, it's the best thing about me". The girl who shacks up with her boyfriend, is blinded by the bonding that God designed into sex and is fooled into thinking she's in love with the guy.
But all is not lost. At any time in her life, the second kind of girl can turn into the first kind, and reap all of the benefits that the first girl enjoys. And she doesn't even need a hymen to do that, because a manly man is interested in what is in a woman's heart, not what's in her vagina.
Jessica Valenti has a new article out in the Guardian about the attempts to turn a philosophy that is fundamentally disempowering and objectifying into a new form of feminism, with the modesty movement. Jessica and I talked some about her article when I was in NYC and she said that while it was fun to write, it was depressing to talk to some of the women who were pushing this movement because they somehow had convinced themselves that playing what Jill Soloway calls "hide the bunny" with men is empowering.
In Catholicism, what is sacred should be veiled. The tabernacle with the Real Presence of Jesus is veiled. In the Old Testament, the Ark of the Covenant was veiled. On a woman, where she partners in God's work of creation should be veiled.
Treating herself with dignity, will encourage the men around her to treat her with dignity. And when the time comes to engage in God's creative work making love with her will be the sacrament that God intended it to be.
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| Posted by: tony on 07/10/2006 08:10 PM (Read: ) |
If you even glance at one or two conservative blogs, you can't have missed the story of Deb Frisch who in comments wrote some particularly nasty comments regarding Jeff Goldstein's little boy on Protein Wisdom:
"Ooh. Two year old boy. Sounds hot. You live in Colorado, I see. Hope no one Jon-Benets your baby.
Are you still married to the woman you humped to produce the toddler?"
Well, in my neck of the woods, that is called "assault".
Jeff posts a link to information about this particular girl.
Cecile McKee, left, a UA faculty member, has started looking for work where she can get benefits for partner Deborah Frisch.
So she's soaking off of her lesbian lover. I thought real womyn took care of business themselves. My bad.
(H/T to Baldi, of course)
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